Mommy Dearest has fired off a response.

Classic narcissistic deflection.

✔ Slander me.

✔ Make me seem unstable.

✔ Gaslight.

✔ Blame me.

✔ Defend the indefensible.

✔ Play the victim.

Verbatim, no edits. Read for yourself.

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Oh yes I do, Ilana. I certainly will inform my friends that the person they met this summer or this fall is going through another bout of violent loathing, reason for which I am blocking further reading of her rants.

As for the “corno-graphic” stuff you mention, I’ll be clear from my end at least, hopefully once and for all: most people I know would blame me for NOT telling what happened to me with my father, whereas you choose to accuse ME of informing you, when I thought you were old enough to hear the truth.

So, as much as it grieves me to see you taking off into the land of violent rants against me or others, I will not be answering another and most definitely letting my friends know you are out in the deep end once again, and in over your head. I really hope someone out there will have more strength and courage than I have and manage to bring you back to shore. I am not the monster you claim me to be and see no reason to expose myself to further bouts of rage that would be funny if they were not so grotesquely misdirected.

It was nice getting a glimpse of the person you can be when you’re not hell-bent on destroying a demon that lives in your mind, and is in not a reflection of me.

And if you think I enjoy shutting you out again, you are gievouslyy mistaken. Again.

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Re: Oh no you don’t

(My response to her)

I’m documenting all this. Classic narcissistic abuse. You think you’re coming up with your own playbook which is the true tragedy here. You don’t even see how stereotypical you are as an abuser. Classic. This will play out beautifully in my memoir. Thanks for the memories. 

And also, no thanks for making me your psychologist before I was old enough to count. 

You need help more than I ever did. 

xx your “beloved” daughter. 

#howtosurvivenarcabuse